She is His. He is Hers.

Letters to Juliet and the Story Worth Telling

2012-02-05T10:53:00.000-08:00

(Smiles). No recent entries have been made on our online wedding journal, and to follow a four year course of no blog action I'd put the words now the hard way. Why? You'll see, you'll get to follow the stories day by day. But for the meantime, I'm taking a stroke on a different menu. I guess my husband can say of what's obvious. This proves that my movie passion has not been taken away by my busy schedule as a working mom.

And to share what we've missed seeing in the big screen is a story worth telling even to my next generation -- 'Letters to Juliet'. Love as a strong positive emotion will lead us safe to our destiny.

To my surprise tonight, I reckoned Star Movies will provide me a good romantic entity after my love for 'Jumping the Broom'. Here, I came across some Wine&Cheese buffet plus memorable takeaways:

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* Sophie: I'm sorry, I didn't know love had an expiration date.

* Charlie: Because the truth is, Sophie, I am madly, truly, deeply, passionately in love with you.

* Claire: Dear Claire, "What" and "If" are two words as non-threatening as words can be. But put them together side-by-side and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: What if? What if? What if? I don't know how your story ended but if what you felt then was true love, then it's never too late. If it was true then, why wouldn't it be true now? You need only the courage to follow your heart. I don't know what a love like Juliet's feels like - love to leave loved ones for, love to cross oceans for but I'd like to believe if I ever were to feel it, that I will have the courage to seize it. And, Claire, if you didn't, I hope one day that you will. All my love, Juliet

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Bridal Horse-Ride

2008-04-09T22:21:00.000-07:00

I dreamed of an old wedding. I dreamed of not-so-Maria Clara type of gowns but somehow aside from the sepia background, the cobblestones of that I've seen in Barbara's, and our chocolate motif, I wanted to add more drama not by having the most vintage car ever existed on earth but plainly to hop and ride in a Kalesa. Jojo would much appreciate it I know. It suits both of our personality having such as our bridal ride with all streamers and cans (I would want that believe me!!!) and all effects of the Western Weddings to drive away evil spirits as they say and just to make it more simple but unforgettable.

Butterfly Release

2008-04-09T09:59:00.000-07:00

If anyone desires a wish to come true,
they must first capture a butterfly and whisper wish
to it. Since a butterfly can make no sound, the
butterfly cannot reveal the wish but The Great Spirit
who sees and hears all. In gratitude in giving the beautiful
butterfly its freedom, The Great Spirit always grants
the wish. It only means from the legend, the wish
will be taken to the heavens and be granted.
--READING ROOM--

It was said that the live butterfly release is now a very popular substitute in these modern times for rose petals, rice or some confetti after the church ceremony shower. When I accidentally dropped by The World of Butterflies in Marikina to inquire for my children's upcoming visit, the lady who has entertained me gladly suggested to have at least a butterfly release not to replace the dove-release in our wedding reception but for each of my guest to do such maybe after the church ceremony. A brilliant idea that I took so seriously and at that point I thought of giving each principal sponsor one in an envelope so as to JOIN US TWO in the dove-release or whatsoever AS A SIGN OF THEIR BLESSING to the newly-wed couple. My bridesmaids together with my pretty flower girls could have it too para cute lahat sa EXIT PART --- I'll finalize soon my major plans about these.

The Wedding Rhyme

2008-04-08T07:33:00.000-07:00

You think June or December are the only great marrying months? You may consider getting married on November after reading this old English rhyme:

Married when the year is new, he'll be loving, kind and true.
When February birds do mate, you wed nor dread your fate.
If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know.
Marry in April when you can, joy for maiden and for man.
Marry in the month of May, and you'll surely rue the day.
Marry when June roses grow, over land and sea you'll go.
Those who in July do wed, must labour for their daily bread.
Whoever wed in August be, many a change is sure to see.
Marry in September's shrine, your living will be rich and fine.
If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry.
If you wed in bleak November, only joys will come, remember.
When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last.

Do take note that this is only a superstition, with true love, any marriage will last whatever the month they are marrying in!

Happy Is To Love

2008-04-08T06:04:00.000-07:00

A newly-wed couple once quoted on their wedding day,
"Treasure the love you receive above all.
It will survive long after your good health has vanished.

That's true. Very self-explanatory. And no matter how hard it is to accept the fact that we are not getting any younger and erstwhile old days has really been so good to us, still when you have found your lifetime love and that LOVE which both of you has grown will conquer all endlessly.

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I am marrying soon the man of my life. He's the toughest and the most amazing person I have been in partner with. A perfect father, a role player---- all rolled into one. He is my one and only true love. I will never be afraid because I will have him beside me until the end of time. I love you, Joseph! Cheers!

With Printsonalities

2008-04-06T06:02:00.000-07:00

Jojo and I once again found time to date after processing for the nth time our Certificate of No Marriage at NSO last April 4th. Yep, hope no more runaway bride scenes. But anyway, it was a good cool date. After maybe 3 hours or 4 hours of stay at that office we finally found time to visit PRINTSONALITIES at the One Wedding Gallery, Edsa Shangri-La Plaza Hotel to give way as another option with our PRINTED MATTER idea of wedding invitation designs.

It was an awe-inspiring, notable adventure to happily settle for an answer at that quick moment upon skimming rapidly through the thick proposals of the gallery. As for me, contentment is the answer. And that satisfying response was never expressed. I kept it within me. For him, who eagerly examines through the swatches and their invention, I would say he has his own words to keep too.

After stepping out of the gallery, the ingenious part of me bursted out. Hey, I can do this, I can do that.. I can make this out of that and so on.... a lot of brainstorming followed (I even remembered my Debut preps) and up until this very moment, coming from work I feel like I was floating. We'll get to that I'm sure. The excitement in having my simplest pearlized but plain white invitation idea comes in a twist of adventure and pursuit.

His Cake

2008-03-30T01:16:00.000-07:00

On February 6th of this year, I remember asking my future husband of how his cake would be on our very own wedding day and he gave me a cool, calm, collected answer. A DIAMOND-shape. And I was like-- HUH? Where did you get that idea, man? (with great disapproval) but wait, how do I define a real diamond he was talking about or should I say from his best reply, is that how HE DEFINE his feelings toward his woman; the person whom he has chosen to be with for the rest of his life? So should there be more questions to raise? After a long pause, my heart suddenly jumped and went back to reality. What on earth was that that I heard from him-- I cannot picture a diamond-shaped cake standing with its sharp point in front of a crowd in a wedding reception, can he? Or should that be sculpted flatly on its cakestand? I was trying to expound on a more symbolic creation with both of our personality manifested on it or something as a take-home gift (but it's gonna be the real cake for cutting too)... I mean,  the cake could be a replica of the DRUMSET he has been playing with 8 years ago when we were beginning to be boyfriends and stuff or anything funny, stuffs like that... but it's fine, I just went hysterical as an initial reaction and that would do. Can that possibly be made with a gum paste? Ah, so much for that. The design will surely change later on once he changes his mind. 

STATEMENT. One unique way I can surprise my fiance and maybe our guests is to have our personal wedding vows be written around the cake to make it more unforgettable and special. I sure hope Karla Magbanua's Art is the answer in line with capturing what we really wanted on our simple celebration.

Getting Back To Where I Started

2008-03-30T00:12:00.000-07:00

I am smiling at the moment. I know, it has been a while since I have opened my humblesouls blog and I so much miss everything in it. Have been busy as usual with work. And today, I had the time to walk in to some stalls at the mall to finalize what I wanted as throw aways for our wedding. I have gone through my new Wedding Essentials' Volume 4 Issue I for January to June 2008 and I said before that I am completing my copies until the day I get married. I had it with me for a couple of days untouched with only four pages skimmed.

I dunno, there are mixed emotions going on maybe because I am so nervous of the big day, as well as preparing for it and yet I am finally decided to settle down with this running 8-year old boyfriend-dad-of-my-kiddos.

Late in the afternoon, I met my friends Jacqui and Jetro at SM Mega Mall together with his son Ethan, my daughter Gaielle and our little friend Blythe, and I was telling them all that maybe I am a bit ready to say I DO after all the troubles.... long pause.... should I say? And were any troubles? Hahaha... Friends and relatives who do know me may understood what I'm saying. And there's this feeling of TYING YOUR LIFE with the man you choose to be with lifetime... but this is it. I finally said MY YES early of April last year and there I believe there will be no turning back.

NO DOUBT. The man has been with me through thick and thin, and I if I were to choose between the man I love and the man who loves me I'll offer my entire life the most to the man who loves me. There's one and only best way to describe a special person who has showed me his great respect, dignity and courage despite our situation today-- I am so blessed to have him. Driving home from the office yesterday at dawn after he has fetched me-- there's just so much going on inside me I cannot express. I just looked at him and whispered THANK YOU, for every single thing.

Ceremony Cord

2008-03-07T05:31:00.001-08:00

Last January, I have gotten in touch with Pam Sulit who will personally create our hand-crafted wedding ceremony cord made (very unique!) to symbolize the union of souls this year. It would definitely have to meet the motif and wedding theme and I have finally placed my order today. An all-crystal classic design (yep, no pearls!) to give way for the pre-hispanic or old wedding theme I wanted. I have considered the SHERINIE ORANGE AND ESPRESSO and another, the REAN PLUM. In a post-Chrismas celebration, color plum would be best suiting for the motif of burgundy or red wine. Well, Jojo has never changed his mind on our motif yet, am not sure but I am having second thoughts too late.

This of which will fall into a wedding collectible item that will be preserved and will be handed down to my daughter Ianthe Gabrielle, and husband-to-be in the future. I am sure how much a PAMANA will be appreciated by our one and only, lovely beautiful princess.

Celebrating Life's Highlights

2008-02-09T17:16:00.000-08:00

I have just opened my Yahoo! email account and surprising to receive another invitation from the General Manager of The Glass Garden, Camille Garcia. This is the Initial Grand Food Tasting of Hizon's for this year entitled CELEBRATING LIFE'S HIGHLIGHTS. If we are not to change the date for the post-Christmas Wedding, we might consider changing venues but not the concessionaire we've agreed upon.

I am so happy today! I am blogging alone in this room, my fiance and our eldest child went shopping; no one is to witness what I have here inside me (Of course my youngest won't comprehend). Words cannot describe how I feel towards falling in love with the same person over and over again. I love the way he smiles and his chinito eyes, I love the way he talks to me, I love his senses! How far can an 8-year old relationship test me for certainty and loyalty? We've talked about this so many times, and I am just so happy to express my love to the only man I chose to be with lifetime.

A Sexy Veil

2008-02-08T20:18:00.000-08:00

I always wanted to impress myself with my choice of design. I have taken a picture of a sexy veil Jojo wanted me to wear when I walk down the aisle but I stand no more than 5 feet so how could I? Last resort would be with the help of my red bridal shoes that I wish nobody in the world would contradict.

Aside from having swarovski studs on my plain ecru veil, a good design I wanted to consider with the type of wedding gown I am wearing by M. C. of O would be somewhat like the photo below; shoulder length and stylish although this has some silver linings on it.. perfect for my height. Anyway I didn't wish for any cathedral type of veils at all.. not to be considered for a garden-typed wedding. Jojo changes his mind to switch the ceremonial rites at the Cathedral. Am not sure, I might just say OK.

His Wedding Cake

2008-02-08T19:37:00.000-08:00

Running through the choices of a simple three layered Red Ribbon Belgian Chocolate Cake or Estrelle's Tree Cake, I remember Jojo flipping through the pages of my Wedding Essential magazines last year. What we see on the picture above was his first choice from Cake World. We went to set up an appointment with them last year too to check of its price. I have concluded that it has nothing to do with the motif that we're having. But he can't forget those cute solo cakes (left page) good to be served for our principal sponsors.

Unexpectedly last week, when he got home from their AIRSOFT game, I asked him again what is it gonna be from Kink Cakes or Claycakes'? And he just answered me with BE IT A DIAMOND SHAPE. Flattered with his reply I didn't ask for the reason why. The shape, though it is very hard to mix and match with a chocolate brown motif would be more than symbolic and meaningful for a bride even though in reality we cannot afford a cut platinum diamond ring-- I do think this should matter anymore. Our friendship as couple is more essential for our wedding day and I'll see if I need to consider his suggestion with regard to having a diamond cake.

You live your life only once. As you commit it, you make sure it is worthy
so you can join them in that blissful paradise.

A Song I've Always Wanted

2008-01-26T11:29:00.000-08:00

I got up from bed because of this certain song I have saved and played with my MP3 a while ago that I would always wanted to hear on a wedding.. maybe on my wedding. It's more of having it applied to a committed mother and wife and you've witnessed all sacrifices and time she had for her family and so on. But it's kinda different, and of course I want this song dedicated for me soon by my husband-to-be. I said I'm gonna write it on my blog. Well, actually there is another song I have always wanted too and it's so classic. I heard the song SHE from the movie Notting Hill with Anna Scott and I guess that's just one great song that maybe can be considered for a Bridal March, am not sure with my fiance.

She's Always A Woman
by Billy Joel

She can kill with a smile
She can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child
But she's always a woman to me

She can lead you to live
She can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth
But she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free
She steals like a thief
But she's always a woman to me

Oh, she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants
She's ahead of her time
Oh, and she never gives out
And she never gives in
She just changes her mind

She will promise you more
Than the Garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you
And laugh while you're bleedin'
But she'll bring out the best
And the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself
Cause she's always a woman to me

She is frequently kind
And she's suddenly cruel
She can do as she pleases
She's nobody's fool
But she can't be convicted
She's earned her degree
And the most she will do
Is throw shadows at you
But she's always a woman to me

Last Year of Being Friendly Couple

2008-01-26T00:09:00.000-08:00

Speechless as I may be because this is the last year Jojo and I celebrated 2007 as girlfriend-and-boyfriend couple and we are much looking forward to being husband and wife by May. I never thought time flies so fast and we are turning to our 8th year as friends, lovers, couple. That's why considering to be married on 2008, on our 8th year seems to give us all the best wishes and luck. I just turned 28 last December and Jojo turned 28 too this January. Truly it's about time to tie our knot and not wait for the third little Jojo or little Yang to follow. But still, am looking forward to more challenges that would make us strong and firm as partners, more straightforwardness and courage to face squarely whatever trial that comes our way, and more good health so we could take good care of this family that we have started to establish. May our God help and guide us, bind us as one.

You live your life only once. As you commit it, you make sure it is worthy so you can join them in that blissful paradise.

New Year's Eve 2007

2008-01-26T00:01:00.000-08:00

Wearing my fiance's Christmas gift which is a Blue Green Guess vintage style collared shirt while he was wearing my gift too of Ralph Lauren Blue collared shirt last New Year Eve, nothing would be as memorable as the GRAFFITI Jojo has made in front of our house. Every year, we make one ourselves alongside of Leo Street especially when it is our Year Anniversary during month of May.

The next morning when my Dad and my daughter Gaielle were doing some gardening, I went outside to check the GRAFFITI and just took another picture of it. Thanks MahaL for the sweet thought. That was a perfect heart graffiti there!

You live your life only once. As you commit it, you make sure it is worthy so you
can join them in that blissful paradise.

First Bridal Fair June 2007

2008-01-06T16:00:00.000-08:00

THE FORT

GLORIA JEAN'S CAFE

To start the day right to our first participation to the Bridal Fair,

Jojo and I decided to have some Chocolate Macadamia and some Vanilla Caramel.

There were butterflies on my stomach when we walk towards the NBC Tent.

I kept on sipping my coffee blended frost. I was thinking of a lot of couples

enjoying the fair comparing notes from their lists, taking a look at different options, but I, I looked forward to

bridal talks which unluckily we did not have...

NBC TENT, The Fort
WEDDING SUMMIT 2007 Bridal Fair
FERNDWOOD GARDENS & FERNBROOK GARDENS
as Major Sponsor

You'll see Jojo's excitement as we walk towards the red carpet after we had checked our

registration. We were given name tags for suppliers to address clients properly and to recognize

our interests for our wedding. We enjoyed tasting food from the chocolate fountain, Jojo tried speaking

to different sponsors of souvenirs and event's analysts and most of all, he was so happy

collecting brochures and getting our loot bag from the counter.

We never had the chance to taste from the sponsors of the Catering Services

because we thought to spend our time together in a differnt way.

The souvenir sponsor which Jojo cannot forget most was the designer of the craft himself, a LAHAR victim.

Although I really do not appreciate much the color gold as a souvenir,

we paid respect by trying to look at his creative designs.

Jojo did take a photo of the parrot but we forgot taking a picture of himself
at the venue...SORRY, MahaL!

Jojo and I went to Market! Market! just to find a good ambience for good eating and to catch some movies. But Jojo did not feel so comfortable with so many people. Actually, there was so much of a crowd inside and shoppers are really mad. Well, one thing is for good, SHAWARMA CHANNEL, our all time fave is there! I guess anywhere we go, we try to look for some shawarma... This is our favorite food nowadays. And to cut the story short..after two SHAWARMAs for each, we ended up to EASTWOOD CITY CINEMAS. We never thought we would be watching MR. BEAN it is just that we were not able to make it for the start of the movie, Zodiac. Jojo and I both agree that we should be on time for taking our babies to sleep. It was about 6:00pm when the movie started and honestly at first I really don't like watching but in the end... I found out that it wasn't so corny watching it at all!

Sobrang dulo ng inupunan ko sa itaas! Cuz I thought I am really to watch a nonsense movie so I chose this place just to sleep, but no I did not...

Lucky Seven (May 24, 2007)

2008-01-06T15:47:00.000-08:00

(Compilation from my other blog)

Here's a toast to THE COUPLE who just turned SEVEN YEARS today!

ONE FINE DAY. The celebration was made simple. It was a choice at first of spending it over in a hotel with the kids or in a resort for a final bid before summer ends. But no, Jojo preferred it to be spent at home as I am nursing my body from migraine and overstressed work. Evidently, there was no filed leave for this special day but I have to stay at home, be absent, and get sleep as much as I want to.

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Early last night, when we both drove home from work, we tried catching up at the wet market for some Chicken Curry ingredients... but chicks are to no avail. (We decided to have this for lunch on our day because I knew already I wasn't feeling well and I'd better get rest on the next day instead of reporting to work) So we still have to rush to Rustan's Express Lane as we have no choice but to have the major ingredient on our hands. Unluckily, we bought home nothing since the shopping lane has ran out of stock.

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Waking up early in the morning seems so ordinary. But Mahal greeted me happily and excitedly to welcome the day ----totally I was blank and it seems that I had a memory lapse on my head. What I knew was that we four, Mahal, me and our kids, enjoyed the cool breeze of the airconditioner which was our companion for the whole night of sleep. And to make the day so extraordinary, Mahal was appointed to go to Ampid Wet Market to get some cold cuts. Luckily, we found a bunch of chicken stock from our refrigerator which were mom's. So I was left with no option but to ask for a permission by texting her. She was away for a retreat in Tagaytay. All we were left is to get extra ingredients for the feast. We decided to walk with the kids to a nearby store in Lower Saguittarius Street. to buy some veggies and to make the day perfect, we dropped by Jojo's house to greet the Ramoses a good morning. Luckily, on the second strike, Jojo's parents are on their way to the market. His father offered us a menu for our special day. Jojo decided to have some PAPAITAN be prepared as it was the meal which made us both closer seven years ago. Halo-Halo was served in the afternoon at the Ramos' abode after our lunch at home. Angel, Jojo's sister, bought Aira Sef at home for a little get-together w/his brother and to spend the day specially.

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To wrap it all up before Jojo left for work around 7pm, the kids watched Barney Zoo CD and Mr. Bean around 4pm as we both decided to relax; me in front of the computer, and Jojo on his one hour bed rest. I can say that there's no more meaningful that a simple celebration like this with our family. At least, we had the day pass without overspending too much money like how we usually do over the past years... Mahal has succeeded in convincing me about this.. well, I thought so because he is right.

First Visit To A Venue

2008-01-05T23:12:00.000-08:00

BLUE GARDENS
The only ENGLISH GARDEN in the heart of Quezon City
A bubbling fountain soothes the soul while the formal garden
is softened by elements like charming bird houses, stained glass
bottles and white lattices covered with vines.

This Monday was our schedule to visit and feel the TOP FOUR value-for-money wedding venues in Quezon City next to Fernwood Gardens of course which is very much familiar to me and to Jojo. These four places are both of our choice. We have not yet considered listing down farther places because we believe that practicality would best work in wedding plans if you've come across the cheapest and the not-so-considered.

It was noontime when Jojo and I stretched COMMONWEALTH AVENUE. We watched Supernatural Season II at the morning after preparing Gaielle for school and before Bastin's Nap time. Luckily we were able to visit two out of four places. Rain poured so hard that we had to postpone visiting other venues. But it was okay, the whole day with my love one was as memorable as ever.

BLUE GARDENS captures the OLD WORLD OF CHARM and natural beauty of an English garden. The stone wall entrance gate has magnificent ornate carvings, a fish fountain, and pillars reminiscent of 17th Century CHATEAU DE BRECY’s monumental gate in Normandy—a fitting dramatic first impression of the garden.

STONE WALL ENTRANCE GATE

Upon entering the garden’s grounds, one is transported to another world.

The landscape is filled with blooming flowers of every color and shape.
A cobblestone path, which is framed by a lush arbor filled with violet lowering
vines, leads to a majestic white gazebo inspired by Castle Versailles of France.

A cobblestone path, which is framed by a lush arbor filled with violet
flowering vines, leads to a majestic white gazebo inspired by
Castle Versailles of France. This is the view outside from the castle-inspired
building. I am actually standing at its staircase.

We were on our way up to the MAIN HALL.

MAIN HALL
European-Inspired Chateau

It has all-white pristine interiors, Greek pillars wrapped with flowering
silk vines, big French windows, a chandelier, and a stage with a panoramic
view of the lush garden.

It's lobby opens to a grand-gilded mirror and chandelier.

Over-all, Jojo was happy and contented with his first visit at the place. He has not seen the rates yet for 2008 but he was able to come up with some unique ideas if ever we'll be celebrating our wedding at Blue Gardens. His eyes expressed so much excitement and many colorful plans he has shared to me when we sat back to the car as we drove to the Grand Terrace. He mentioned about what OUR CAKE should look like, what his pair of shoes will be and what his unique outfit would be. All these are remembered here in my heart. SALAMAT, MAHAL!

The rain has not stopped until we reached our next destination. THE GRAND TERRACE is conveniently situated at the heart of Quezon City. It was only a five-minute drive from Blue Gardens.

The Grand Terrace houses the first fully air-conditioned garden venue in the country, the Venus Garden, which accommodates up to 300 guests. Its UV protected polycarbonate roofing makes it an ideal venue for morning or lunch affairs when the sun is bright, dinner and cocktail parties on moonlit nights, or even when it rains. Conceptualized with the comfort and convenience of the guests in mind, The Grand Terrace incorporates revolutionary concepts not found in any other weddings and events venue in the country.

VENUS GARDEN

On the contrary, Jojo was not satisfied with how their host presented the place to us. No thrill at all he told me. The place was actually really more convenient to me because I was thinking that our guests might not be delighted when they find their way to Blue Gardens compared to Grand Terrace which is actually along Commonwealth Avenue with so many good landmarks. Well anyway, to make the day complete since it's already too late to hop to the other two venues, we dragged ourselves to UP DILIMAN to meet new friends. I suggested to Jojo to try looking for an alternative group who would sing for us for both at the church and at the reception. Yeah, we really don't know anyone from the COLLEGE OF MUSIC, but it was a good shot though for me not to miss dropping by at the college and look for volunteers. Jojo wanted some fishball and kwek-kwek, so we dropped VINZON'S HALL where we used to buy the streetfoods way back years. Wow! It was newly-painted! It has been a while where I last stepped in UP.

Accidentally, I met DAYANG at the 2nd Floor corridor of the Plaridel Hall. I first approached her and I told her of our situation about the wedding. Jojo was at the College's quadrangle, talking to EZ. He called EZ on his mobile phone just to share his experience and his excitement in visiting BLUE GARDENS. Dayang took me to her office and she said that I somewhat looked familiar to her. I told her that I belong to Batch '96 CFA so she can have an idea that we maybe classmates to some GE Subjects. But I learned she belonged to Batch '93. But yeah, she could have been a classmate on one of my PE Subjects. The acquaintance was good and quick. She gave me two referrals w/their handyphone #s and she wished me good luck. She actually shared her wedding experience at Tagaytay with the Madrigal Singers or MADZ. She also mentioned that these referrals were really good at their piece. They may play 10-11 songs at the reception with a good affordable package; instruments include GUITAR, VIOLIN and FLUTE.

Banners along A.S. WALK
reminds me of my college years

Jojo was reminded of the Black Bat cigar we have tried from couples, Ayn and Jeff Azarcon, when we dined in Prince of Jaipur last June. Ayn mentioned that we can buy this stuff in UP. I took Jojo to the Main Library and viola! He bought two as souvenirs. That was a looong walk from where we have parked the car. At least, it was a very good chance I did a li'l exercise. We are sure we will be back, no not for the cigars, but for a long morning walk and some family picnic in Sunken Garden.

JULY 30, 2007

2008-01-05T15:24:00.000-08:00

Towards A Lifetime
Commitment

I started saving with me wedding stuffs I have gotten from the internet way back year 2001 when Jojo and I first came to Manila Cathedral together and visited Intramuros. We never thought of any wedding plans at all, it was a simple date indeed touring the vicinity. We took lots of pictures while we were at the Church and I have saved them in an album. It was here when he first proposed to me for a lifetime relationship. Of course, I would hate to say but I declined it because I am not prepared yet. I was only 21. But he kept on telling me that his life belongs to me.

On the second row, infront of the Basilica's altar where we were seated, he told me of his dreams marrying at Venice, Italy. For a second my heartbeat stopped ---because I am to say the same story. It was such a shameful coincidence and from there, we kept on exchanging ideas of how are wedding dreams would be. Jojo and I met on April 11, year 2000. I had the chance of talking to him again after so many years. We met each other along the street in the subdivision after I have accompanied my Youth For Christ friends on their way home from my house. Jojo was a childhood friend, a servicemate, when we were in nursery. He goes to Marist School and I to St. Scholastica's Academy. From van during nursery days to a yellow bus on grade school days. Funny because he usually writes me love letters and send it through a male friend...then his male friend change Jojo's name to his own. But I didn't get to read them all-- my friends do the reading for me and interpret his every sweet word by reciting them. When we were in grade three, he tried dropping by our house one morning. While waiting for me in the living room, he tried playing LEGO with my brothers. But he wasn't entertained. Instead they had all spill the LEGO on his head which made him cry and go home. Funny again, but he told me this story only when we became boyfriend and girlfriend. What I remember most was when we were on 5th grade. There was a November Affair here in Bancom and tickets were sold for P50 per entry. I was cleaning my shoes at the terrace that time about 6pm when he came knocking at our gate. He invited me and he has shown me two tickets that he bought for the DISCO. Just imagine, my mom permitted me to go.

On April 2007, Jojo and I decided to tie the knot. The wedding date is next year. This May, we started attending several Bridal Fairs and we started hopping to different Bridal shops. Yes, we keep on going and trying to discover ways we can make our day memorable. Below is an example of the invitation and some gowns I would want to have for our wedding plus a cocktail dress for the reception. Here are my major picks that somehow have pleased me. On the other hand, I would want to add some vintage style on our motiff. We were dreaming of having with us a white vintage car not necessarily a Benz. There are a lot more plans which have not been finalized yet but I am saving 'em all for the record on this blog.

elegant ecru invitation

a Cocktail Dance Gown

bride's bouquet as simple as this

Plain and Prints

2007-12-10T17:14:00.000-08:00

I knew from the very start I owe time in getting back to writing down our wedding plans. It has been a month now since I started working with HBUS, HSBC. An INBOUND Customer Service for US clients. I have resigned from my previous work two months ago and it was a major decision to finally step out of the competitor card company which is American Express. But what is important now I am back on my feet, not only happy but more than excited because I had more time to condition my heart; the emotions that had been long floating around, my mind, which has been a great companion all throughout, and my own self, which would serve as the living proof of why there is still ME AND HIM standing proud in this tough world. There was no pressure at all, MY TIME was the only key to making it all possible for the planning. BUT ONE THING, my list was never put down.

Lushed

2007-11-15T14:01:00.000-08:00

Jojo has this way of making me feel special. So I am exerting extra effort on working with every piece of our small wedding. I only thought of giving him beautiful memories on our day.

I dream of a Round Bronzed Presidential Table and not-so-tall bouquets in chocolate or cappuccino round pots. I also wanted a creative piece of chandelier with soft curtains that would enclose our private dining place while with our parents.

Whether it'd be a wooden seat for the guests or a tiffany solo, I wanted their tables to be lushed by my chosen combination of flowers or roses with the best scented cappuccino-chocolate mixed candles. As laid-back as ever, for guests that would be part of our big night.

The Unity Coins and Caketop Look-Alike

2007-11-15T13:41:00.000-08:00

On a leatherette white keepsake box are 13 pieces of Unity Coins I would love to order and have on my big day. I've seen those on red boxes, they are more elegant in a way and expensive. But after a long search, I've seen that this design fits both of our personality best. They are simple and I know they will make a great match the WHITE BIBLE we will be using for the ceremonial rites. These coins I've heard are available in two versions, English and Spanish with various finishes and I wanted them in Brilliant Silver w/ Matte Base.

The Wedding Coins come to symbolize more than just PROSPERITY. There's a coin which represents LOVE, Trust, Commitment, Respect, Joy, Happiness, Harmony, Wisdom, Unity, Nurturing, Caring, Cooperation and Peace.

The other thing which interest me are these CAKETOPS made and shipped from Hong Kong once you've placed an order and you have sent them copies of the couple's photos. They will create a funny caricature out of it on wedding suits or whatever request you'd like. For couples who are very adventurous on their plan, it suits best. At first, we were thinking to place only a replica of the bride's bouquet on top of the wedding cake, but something more relevant to having a caketop we have thought of: to place our old flat band rings on a glass wine. An idea we would still consider later on.

You live your life only once. As you commit it, you make sure it is worthy so you can join them in that blissful paradise.

7th Bridal Magazine

2007-11-15T13:06:00.000-08:00

WE BEAUTIFUL WEDDINGS
My 7th Bridal Magazine

It is never the internet nor its stories about weddings that I get information nor updates with first. I run to the newest releases of Bridal Magazines from the rack. Every important detail that delights me, I take note. For me, the magazines I buy are like a HOLY BIBLE. If I am done reading them, I flip back and re-read them over and over again until I memorize the important TO DO's and NOT TO DO's, etc. And how I take care of each magazine-- I buy a very thick plastic cover and place it with the old ones on a big bag. Along with them are catalogues and some brochures I have collected from the Bridal Fair and Venues we have attended.

You live your life only once. As you commit it, you make sure it is worthy so you can join them in that blissful paradise.

My Pair of Red Shoes

2007-11-06T01:34:00.000-08:00

Beneath that backless ecru or ivory wedding dress, I wanted my grand entrance with something unique to be worn as I walk down that grassy or carpeted aisle.. something I would wear and carry the entire reception too. With outrageous feedback that I wanted to hear from all guests, yes, that calls for a display of a sexy, but comfortable BLOODY red STILETTOS. So come on-- who says a bride can’t wear red shoes on her big day? I just love the thought! Who knows!

"My Dream Wedding" by Riana Rose

2007-11-06T00:05:00.000-08:00

How would I wanted to celebrate my wedding especially if money is never an issue and when I have the “K” to go for anything I want to? Well, here’s something I feel like sharing to my dear readers what I dream of having on my special day with my chosen one.

On a hot, steamy summer day at the Shangri-La Mactan Island’s OCEAN PAVILLION, where there are 350 guests who would witness the union of two souls in front of a breathtaking view of the sunset and the ocean. The bride calmly arrives on church, just on time for the 4:00 o’clock ceremony, she gets out of an old white vintage car, and set foot in front of the closed doors of the Pavillion. Her whole entourage on a bronze and cappuccino motif, smiling at her, picking some courage from the bride herself as they walk down the aisle pair by pair. Suddenly, the bride says ‘AM READY’ ... she puts on her diamond studded veil and march so composedly towards her man...

Haaa! Got you there! But my dreams aren’t done yet. I imagine of some Seafood Al Fresco Dining style while aboard on the world’s largest cruise ship, The Freedom of the Seas; We call her ... The Royal Caribbean International. And as we all dance and listen to the tune of classical music played by the String Quartet, the ship would take us across the European Seas where we would all pass by The Shrine of Liberty at the United States of America. Finally, we would be delighted by the nonstop fireworks display as we raise altogether our champagne glasses on air for the successful but another meaningful celebration of life!

The Motif

2007-10-26T17:59:00.000-07:00

Some COFFEE and some Chocolates.

Yes! Enough for those pa-cute powder blue and carnation pink monochromatic hues and tints of the bridesmaids and flower girls while walking down the aisle.. then catch them later on with their wacky pose during the picture-taking after the ceremonies flaunting their long common gowns. We personally would consider shades / tints of chocolate brown this time. So we have a color motif which would carry out from design, to patterns, shapes and ornamentation or embellishment of the entire program and the celebration.

Yesterday, after picking up my daughter from her school, I asked her on how she sees herself while walking down the aisle on her mom and dad’s wedding day. She wanted to wear a brown gown. I said I like the idea but for bridesmaids and flower girls it would be best for them to wear some chiffon lining of some light brown. Well, my plans aren’t finalized yet. There could be some changes who knows from birchtree colors or some lilac / lavender what Jojo and I always wanted ever since.

The Movie THE BRIDGES OF MADISON COUNTY

2007-10-25T12:28:00.000-07:00

How do you define A LOVE FOREVER? We saw the movie, and I was able to define it myself. From a true story created by Robert James Waller comes a very good-selling novel entitled The Bridges of Madison County, filmed and adapted by Richard LaGravenese in 1995 then directed by Clint Eastwood himself who portrayed the role of a National Geographic photographer, RICHARD KINCAID visited the Madison County, IOWA, for a photographic essay on the cover bridges then later on met the adulterous Italian mother, FRANCESCA JOHNSONS.

Remembering the Four Days was the book personally published by Richard for her lady Francesca whom he met and had slept with for four days. They were destined to meet when he came to her place and was just about to ask for directions going to Rosamunde Bridge. Francesca agrees to accompany the man and show the direction since she was left alone at home by her children and husband for an Iowa State Fair for only four days. A brief introduction to each other from day one, to a bittersweet affair, until the supposed runaway from marriage...when suddenly she realized SHE HAD TO STAY for her family.

She suffered pain of separation from her secret love and everything has just consumed her. The story of her four-day love affair she wrote on a three-volume diary found by her children later on when she died.

Meryl Streep as Francesca Johnsons
and Clint Eastwood as Richard Kincaid

GOD IS IN THE DETAILS by Rita M. Neri

2007-10-23T16:58:00.000-07:00

I've read, I have noted her advice all in a piece of a short bond paper. Someday I will have that book.

I sat down at the east wing of the bookstore in Loyola Heights where WEDDING BOOKS are stationed along with wedding destinations and other wedding drama. Thoroughly read piece-by-piece bunch of advices from wedding coordinators and suppliers best they could share for soon-to-weds and I was really overwhelmed. One which I held for several hours is the detailed book of professional, renowned wedding coordinator expert, RITA M. NERI. This book was publicized on 1998 entitled The New Essential Wedding Workbook For The Filipina which became a bestseller. Now I wanted to have one soon.

There’s a part of the book which the writer talks about having GOD within the details of each planning, most especially for a Roman Catholic Wedding. I was moved. That answers for both of us as couple because we are Catholics and though I cannot fully vouch that we made GOD as the center of our relationship, still we believed and entrusted our lives to him from the very point we started a family and worked together as parents. The writer says for the soul of the wedding it would only be the CEREMONY because it’s a solemn affair and the rest of the details are merely components. Well, it wouldn’t be an en grande one.. but sure for both the ceremony and the reception we will all make it impossible for our union of love day.

The Movie YOURS, MINE and OURS

2007-10-18T16:44:00.000-07:00

ROCK THE HOUSE! With Dennis Quaid (Admiral Frank Beardsley) and Rene Russo (Hellen North) tandem as high-school sweethearts brought them both to rush into marriage after finding out they are both widows. Jojo and I had some loud laughs watching this. Very remarkable indeed was their LIGHTHOUSE. That's the best part for me. A good landscape painting at my point of view. And I'm taking note of it how the story of the LIGHTHOUSE made me cry and hide myself at the back of Jojo's shoulders. Let us share to you the cyberspace address where you may take a peep of the crew and its story: www.yoursmineandoursmovie.com

There are some culture clash running through their kids-- yup, sibling rivalry and they devised a plan to undermine the marriage of their parents as they all team up. But the supposed mess all end up so beautifully upon the decision of the parents to separate ways and the children admitting their big mistake of trying to break them up. I love the acting of Danielle Panabaker(Phoebe North), the eldest daughter of Renee Russo, pretty and and a talented guitarist and Sean Faris as (William Beardsley) who plays the role of the eldest son of Dennis Quaid-- good-looking boy with perfect academic grades.

The story of the LIGHTHOUSE? Let's just say that LOVE will always be the LIGHT and the WAY for parents who dream of building a strong foundation of a family.

My Parents' Advice

2007-10-18T16:38:00.000-07:00

From the very dot of announcing ... to the wedding detailing, I have listened to their advise; MAKE IT SIMPLE.

I may seem so extra serious with all that I am reading related to wedding and look very meticulous with every single thing I wanted to execute and apply. These for all the mere fact that a bride is planning for their big day. And planning would include the not-so-considered and the dreamed stuffs.

If we say BIG DAY, it wouldn't have to be so elegant. For us, it has to be memorable. We would say it wouldn't have to be so costly too because our pockets are prepared only for the major details of a wedding.

This blog would help us express E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G we wanted for our big day, our dream, and it doesn't have to be exaggerated especially on the headcount. I personally wanted 50. But just with a perfect blend of all our likes and loves, we wanted to know that both of our parents should have nothing to worry.

The Movie THE IN-LAWS

2007-10-18T16:00:00.000-07:00

Jojo and I have just watched the movie THE IN-LAWS and we've just finished THE WEDDING PLANNER too. I love Michael Douglas and he just played it right to this off-beat comedy. But it's not about the IN-LAWS we will be talking about here because we have no issues whatsoever to discuss, it's just a matter of sharing to you our readers what made our hearts touched by some of the nice episodes of this movie.

UNDERCOVER AGENT - The Father of the Groom, Steve Tobias (Michael Douglas), still does his job in the middle of the wedding planning of his son Mark Tobias (Ryan Reynolds) and his job, is an undercover agent for CIA who deals with international arm dealers, French super-villains, heavily-armed men, and all those not so pleasant to encounter. But one thing right about this dad despite his hectic mission to accomplish, he meets the needs and apologizes to his son straightforwardly all his shortcomings-- for being away for a long time and misses to share parental and domestic duties ... solving the crime on the wedding day itself.

THE PRAYER of the BRIDE (was ANSWERED) - They wed beside the beach only with the presence of the their parents as she wished when the entire flambouyant reception, planned and organized by her father, was destroyed by the exploding missile and all thanks to Steve Tobias who has found an alternative venue which he didn't know is the bride's dream.

The wedding by the beach is something for both of us we very much wanted to have. With only our loved ones. SIMPLE. For us, it would always sound very meaningful to exchange vows in front of God's creation. It was a good lesson learned unexpectedly from this movie.

The Wedding Singers Group 2

2007-10-13T09:16:00.000-07:00

For a very unique, relaxed atmosphere on our reception there's one group we dearly loved watching when we met them last January of this year in Alabang. My brother RJ was celebrating his 25th Birthday at HULA HULA Seafood Restau with us, our youngest Ramil Ian and RJ's girlfriend Angie. Mr John Santos' group would give the most perfect ambience as we choose them to sing country folk songs while we and our guests sit back and enjoy the occasion, ensuring there is never a dull moment. The entertainment will express our personalities as individual and as couple to mark the different stages of our relationship for the past 7 years to our wedding itself.

The Wedding Singers Group 1

2007-10-13T08:25:00.000-07:00

The songs for the matrimonial rites specially written down on my wedding planner last May will finally come to life as I bookmarked the wedding date to The UP Singing Madrigals or well-known as MADZ. For them to be part of my big day will not only make it complete but truly remarkable. They are my ever best choice.

July, when I met Dayang Yraola accidentally at the UP College of Music after Jojo and I dropped by to inquire for wedding singers. It was so funny that we both looked so familiar to each other while conversing about her then wedding and my plans. It came to a thought that maybe she is the answer to my prayers.

So two weeks ago when I finally knew I am prepared, I sent an SMS to Ms. Ella Baarde. I was comfortable with her reply and she was really a professional. She has sent me thru e-mail the list of songs that they usually sing and play w/ accompaniment from the Entourage to the Picture-taking. Am so glad I found comfort to my number one choice of singing group.

The Wedding Date

2007-10-13T07:37:00.000-07:00

The perfect day is Saturday.
The perfect year is 2008.

The Wedding Date matches our own Anniversary.

Exchange of I DO's will be said exactly on our 8th year next May
from the very moment we've said "YES, I LOVE YOU" 8 years back.

My Blog, My Safe Haven

2007-10-11T17:43:00.000-07:00

My fondness of blogging started month of May this year. I have created my own and I enjoyed updating it from time to time. My cyberspace address is http://insidemycradle.blogspot.com. The blog name I used was derived from Joseph's Online Diary 2005 which holds his life mementos, ours and the kids'. He has online photos being shared to viewers too. That has been an inspiration, an awakening to me. I know I miss keeping a diary or a journal so I thought if I open myself to this type of adventure, I will keep a cheerful, updated life.. but this time it will be online.. no need to scribble.. so challenging that my life will be an open book not only to family and friends but also to those readers I personally don't know. But it's okay, I am loving what I am blogging. I find it very therapeutic. My blog is my safe haven. My obligation is to STAY TRUE to myself and to my readers.

Going through the drama of our wedding preparations despite the fact there's stress balancing my work and polishing the details of which, I wanted to share to my family and friends the REAL DISH of all that I wanted to happen on my simple day. So let's all have some toast to the best time of my life! CHEERS!!! -- Riana Rose

A Note To All

2007-10-11T15:01:00.000-07:00

Dear Friends and Family, we are working on this sweet finish blog which may share to you details of our wedding for next year. Planning such an event was an experience we are both enjoying as couple since we were both highly involved in the preparations. All these matter to both of us since we are preparing our future together. It all feels good to share this love and blogging is one healthy, self-indulging way to prove we are working hard for our dream no matter how and what the landscape may be.

HUMBLE SOULS

2007-10-11T14:42:00.000-07:00

Two souls are tying the knot on May 24, 2008. It’s a merry Saturday for their family and friends. It would be a simple yet an elegant evening affair. Everybody celebrating the union of love in paradise.

She is His. He is Hers.

Letters to Juliet and the Story Worth Telling

Bridal Horse-Ride

Butterfly Release

The Wedding Rhyme

Happy Is To Love

With Printsonalities

His Cake

Getting Back To Where I Started

Ceremony Cord

Celebrating Life's Highlights

A Sexy Veil

His Wedding Cake

A Song I've Always Wanted

She's Always A Womanby Billy Joel

Last Year of Being Friendly Couple

New Year's Eve 2007

First Bridal Fair June 2007

Lucky Seven (May 24, 2007)

First Visit To A Venue

Plain and Prints

Lushed

The Unity Coins and Caketop Look-Alike

7th Bridal Magazine

My Pair of Red Shoes

"My Dream Wedding" by Riana Rose

The Motif

The Movie THE BRIDGES OF MADISON COUNTY

GOD IS IN THE DETAILS by Rita M. Neri

The Movie YOURS, MINE and OURS

My Parents' Advice

The Movie THE IN-LAWS

The Wedding Singers Group 2

The Wedding Singers Group 1

The Wedding Date

My Blog, My Safe Haven

A Note To All

HUMBLE SOULS

She's Always A Woman
by Billy Joel